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- Since marriage in African culture is considered the official joining of two families, a large emphasis is placed on getting family permissions and blessings before the wedding. In Ghana, the groom requests permission through the custom of “knocking on the door.” Bearing gifts, he visits his potential in-laws accompanied by his own family. If his “knock” is accepted, the families celebrate and wedding planning begins. Or, simply plan an outing (like a brunch or dinner date) to bring both families together before the wedding and begin forming family bonds.
- In traditional Asante weddings, money and gifts were also exchanged before the bride was handed over to her new husband. Of note, receipt of this payment also meant that the husband automatically assumed legal paternity of all their children.
- Among the Anlo Ewe, the bride is sequestered from everyone but a few elderly female relatives for several months prior to the wedding. On the day she was finally handed over to her new husband after her seclusion, her parents would cover her body with powder as a symbol of her allegiance to her new husband. She would then be handed over to her new husband
- Prior to the wedding ceremony the groom is required to send gifts to the bride which include clothing and wedding jewelry, a mat, a stool and a trunk box. On the day of the actual wedding, the groom will send delegates to the bride’s house to escort her over to his home. A libation is poured out before she leaves her home and her brothers (or male relatives) will demand what is known as a “brother-in-law’s knife”… This is essentially another payment that has to be paid and paid up the bride is permitted to leave her parent’s house.
- To mark the moment when the bride moves from her father’s home to her new husband’s, the groom will present his new in-laws with gifts of wine and gin.
- He also believes that by doing so he is pleasing the gods of his new wife’s family. It is only then that the bride can move in with her husband.
- To celebrate this occasion, she will cook a huge feast for her new husband and his extended family.
- Bride and groom may choose handwoven African royal fabrics, called Kente to wear for the ceremony making them King and Queen for a day. The traditional color of African royalty is purple accented with gold. These may also be used as accent colors for the bridal ensemble.
- Kente Cloth is a primary woven fabric produced by the people of the old Ashanti Kingdom of Ghana. It has traditional red, gold and green repeated in the design which symbolizes liberation i.e. red, for the blood shed by millions in captivity; gold, for the mineral wealth or prosperity; and green, for vegetation.
- The African bride wears a Wrap Skirt (iro) made of kente cloth, a matching Shawl (iborum) and Headpiece (a gele’), and a Short, loose blouse (buba) made out of the same fabric as the skirt.
ZULU CULTURE – “THE GREAT HOMES”
- In Ghana, Africa, location is everything. Women in Ghana are viewed as the life force of the tribe. After all, they were where all the great warriors and chiefs came from. Because of this, Zulu culture referred to women as “the great homes.” Because of this status, it was considered customary for the husband to be, to move to his bride’s village.
- The significance of the broom to African-Americans heritage and history originates in the West African country of Ghana.
- Brooms were waved over the heads of marrying couples to ward off spirits. The couple would often but not always jump over the broom at the end of the ceremony. Jumping over the broom symbolized the wife’s commitment or willingness to clean the courtyard of the new home she had joined. Furthermore, it expressed her overall commitment to the house. It also represented the determination of who ran the household. Whoever jumped highest over the broom was the decision maker of the household (usually the man). The jumping of the broom does not add up to taking a “leap of faith.”
Bobbie Sanders says
I live in the USA, can I marry a woman in Ghana with out being there ?
Gladys Oduro-Mantey says
Yes you can. You only have to send money o cover the necessary rites.
yong says
Yes you can if only you love the woman you are marring
KCM says
I understand that me being in the usa that all I have to do is send a picture? also what if the one im gonna marry is getting an iheritance, she says that in order to get it we have to marry ? she says that I will have to sign papers for her to receive it,but when signing documents it will also be my inheritance? that I will have control because I am the man and that the man must support her with what we receive. is that true? also that since she owns a house that it will become mines because if she owns a house and the man dosnt it would bring shame to us so that’s why the man gets it ? does that sound right and is it true ? I did not know anything about this inheritance and how the traditions are till now ,I thought we were gonna get married the American way ? she also mentioned that I would have to buy some fowls and clothes and small gifts for the knocking of the door? and if her father has passed and uncle is there do I ask him for her hand in marriage ,and if yes then what will the proper things to say since I will be doing this over the phone ? not like my tradition were I go face to face with my father inlaw to ask permission? please help me understand more about this, I need your help thank you KCM
MEP says
this seems very similar to my situation. may i ask what the girls name is , Bello?
akc says
I’d like to know about everything your asking please let me know what you find out!
John R. Stonehouse says
I have a similar situation.The Father has Passed recently,has left his inheritance to her,only to be received when she get’s married.I can not afford to go to Ghana.She wants to have a Traditional Marriage and she and her Mom has already looked into the cloth and jewelry required. I was asked to send $1000.00, and then she would be able to receive the inheritance,once she gets her fathers inheritance then move to US and be together. She was born in the US.Lived in Philadelphia with her Mom and Ante.I have talked with her each and every day for months in doing so I would really like to be married to this woman.so I see that from reading the letter above this is a legal process.Will I be responsible for the properties or any liabilities in Ghana.I believe the Mother will stay in Ghanaand they will divide the inheritance accordingly. Please I need some advice! JRS
Lish says
You can let a male relative of yours represent you here in Ghana and go ahead with the marriage. But i hope you guys love each other though.
Mike Reeve says
I too have been talking to a wonderful lady from Ghana. We first were talking about her coming to the states for a visit. Along the way we have fallen in love. Her mother told her of the inhertance her father left for her once she gets married. She has sent me a list of food items I need to buy. I can not be there.How does that work as far as the triditional marraige. Are there papers that need to be signed to make it leagal.And will her inhertence be transfered to my account so I can bring her here to the states?
mary mensah says
pls is knocking can be considered as marriage without wedding
Naa says
No not at all cos it is not marriage.
mary mensah says
pls is knocking can be considered as marriage
Naa says
Knocking is not marriage , he is only to show his face that he is in a relationship with and planning to get married to you but if after some time he is not showing any seriousness towards you that shows he wants to marry you, you can go ahead to marry someone else you find qualified and are ready to settle down.